I think Kola is a severely traumatized person. She says some really off the cuff shit, and I think much of the advice she offers specifically to Black women is often irresponsible and counter-productive.
I don’t like when people attack he so viciously though, I think she’s suffered so much trauma, and has made some contributions to our people through literature and insights that we should criticize her with a level of sympathy and understanding.
I know I’m the last person who can really make this suggestion because I always call out, mock, and crack on New Negros, but I’m sensitive about our Sisters who’ve suffered beyond what most of us Brothers can imagine.
